{"id":73,"date":"2009-01-06T00:19:21","date_gmt":"2009-01-06T07:19:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/matthewkirby.com\/kirbside\/?p=73"},"modified":"2009-01-06T00:19:21","modified_gmt":"2009-01-06T07:19:21","slug":"waiting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/matthewjkirby.com\/kirbside\/?p=73","title":{"rendered":"Waiting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are two things every beginning writer needs.\u00a0 Patience, and a very thick skin.<\/p>\n<p>If a writer wants to be published, sooner or later they will have to <em>submit<\/em> their work someplace that will print it (or post it, in the case of online markets).\u00a0 And since editors and agents receive a lot of work by people who want to be published, they sometimes take a very long time responding to a submission.\u00a0 And after all that waiting, the reality is that a given work, even a great work, is likely to be rejected.\u00a0 Many times.\u00a0 By many people.\u00a0 Hence, the need for patience and a very thick skin.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll probably come back to this topic\u00a0 in future posts with greater detail.\u00a0 But for right now, I&#8217;ve been thinking about these things because I am at this moment waiting to hear back on a book I&#8217;ve submitted.\u00a0 My years of experience and wall of rejection letters lead the pessimistic part of me to expect a response of &#8220;it&#8217;s not ready.&#8221;\u00a0 But nevertheless, I&#8217;m hopeful.\u00a0 The agent I submitted the book to has been wonderful, very supportive of me.\u00a0 He has read a partial draft and was very enthusiastic.\u00a0 I know that when he says he&#8217;ll get to it as soon as he can, he will.\u00a0 And yet&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t really help, in the end.\u00a0 I still have to wait.\u00a0 I still check my email obsessively.\u00a0 I still hold my breath a little before I open the mailbox.\u00a0 I am not very patient.\u00a0 Submission has gotten <em>easier<\/em> over the years, but it still ain&#8217;t easy.<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s a song that&#8217;s been running through my head as I wait&#8230;and wait&#8230;and wait.\u00a0 It&#8217;s by <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Shapeshifter-Marcy-Playground\/dp\/B0000296VE\/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=music&amp;qid=1231223793&amp;sr=1-2\" target=\"_blank\">Marcy Playground<\/a><\/span>, and the whole album is a favorite of mine.<\/p>\n<pre><code>[audio:marcy_playground_sunday_mail.mp3|titles=Sunday Mail|artists=Marcy Playground<\/code><code>]\n<\/code><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are two things every beginning writer needs.\u00a0 Patience, and a very thick skin.<br \/>\nIf a writer wants to be published, sooner or later they will have to submit their work someplace that will print it (or post it, in the case of online markets).\u00a0 And since editors and agents receive a lot of work by 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